The Purcell Family: Building Careers & Community

Photo by Karen Presecan

Four years ago, Kirstin and Sean Purcell made a decision that would change their family's trajectory. Trading the crowded streets of Northern Virginia for the slower pace of Fredericksburg, they sought something that many young families crave, but few successfully find: a genuine sense of community.

"My husband and I wanted to raise our children in a place that wasn't as crowded and had more community feel; and a slower pace," Kirstin explains. Today, with their son J.R., who recently turned five, and daughter Sloane, fast-approaching her third birthday this month, the Purcells have found precisely what they were looking for in their adopted hometown.

The family's story reflects a broader trend of families seeking refuge from the hustle of metropolitan areas, but what sets the Purcells apart is how they've woven themselves into the fabric of their new community. For Kirstin, a Marymount University graduate with a degree in Fashion Merchandising, the move hasn't slowed her professional ambitions. After starting her career in staffing at an agency in Old Town Alexandria, she now runs her own business, dedicating herself to helping others navigate the often-intimidating job market.

Her commitment to community service extends beyond her business. Kirstin regularly hosts complimentary workshops throughout the area to address gaps she's identified in traditional education. "I enjoy hosting complimentary workshops around the community to help candidates find jobs, interview help, and how to write resumes—skills not taught in schools, unfortunately; but my passion is teaching other local business owners how to attract, hire, and retain their talent," she says.

Meanwhile, Sean, who graduated from Shenandoah University with a degree in Criminal Justice, has maintained ties to his roots, working for his father's company initially before landing a job as a Project Manager for Retex Roofing & Exteriors. As a project manager, Sean can spend more time here, locally, versus commuting. And he does it all while coaching high school football, a passion that has clearly rubbed off on his young son.

The Purcell children embody the energy and personality that make family life both challenging and rewarding. J.R., described by his mother with evident affection, represents the perfect blend of toughness and tenderness.

"J.R. is all boy through and through—he loves football, cars, and dinosaurs. He's the happiest little guy with the most infectious giggle that makes everyone around him smile," Kirstin shares. But there's more to this little linebacker than meets the eye. "J.R. has a soft side too—he loves cuddling with his momma—and a spirited side, proudly helping coach the Spotsylvania High School Football Team like he's one of the guys."

Then there's Sloane, the family's pint-sized powerhouse who keeps everyone guessing. Her mother describes her with a mix of admiration and playful exasperation: "Independent, bold, and always testing the limits just to see what she can get away with. She's like a little Shirley Temple with extra sparkle, full of personality and charm. She keeps every single one of us on our toes, and honestly, we wouldn't have it any other way."

The family's two dogs, Remington, a two-year-old yellow lab, and Bristow, an eight-year-old rescue pup, round out the household, adding another layer of joy and occasional chaos to daily life.

For the Purcells, community isn't just a buzzword—it's a practice. Their home has become a gathering place for neighbors and friends, hosting everything from kids' playdates to adult gatherings around the fire pit. Football Sundays are particularly special, with friends joining them for games accompanied by mulled wine and warmth—both from the fire and the company.

"We love to have folks over to watch football by the fire with some mulled wine!" Kirstin says, capturing the welcoming spirit that defines their approach to neighborhood life.

The family takes full advantage of what the Fredericksburg area has to offer, exploring local playgrounds and trying new restaurants downtown. As self-proclaimed "water babies," the kids gravitate toward beach vacations, and the family has plans to visit Great Wolf Lodge. This treat promises to delight their aquatic-loving youngsters.

Beyond the playgrounds and playdates, Kirstin's volunteer work reflects her values and priorities. She dedicates time to causes related to cancer research, child welfare, dog rescues, and food insecurity—all areas where she can make a tangible difference in the lives of others. The Fredericksburg Food Bank has a "special place" in her heart.

It is easy to see the heart the Purcell family pours into their personal and professional lives, and the theme of intentional living becomes clear as well. They didn't just move to Fredericksburg seeking an escape from Northern Virginia's congestion; they came looking for connection and have actively worked to create it. Whether Kirstin is helping companies attract, hire, and retain talent, Sean is coaching defensive schemes or offering advice to his high school football players, or the family is welcoming neighbors into their home, the Purcells demonstrate that community building requires participation, generosity, and a willingness to invest in the people around you.

"I enjoy how tight-knit the community is," Kirstin reflects, and it's clear that her family has contributed significantly to making it that way. In an era when many families struggle to find genuine connections beyond their screens, the Purcells offer a refreshing reminder that community still thrives when people are willing to open their doors, share their time, and embrace the beautiful chaos of life together.
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If you need help Attracting, Hiring or Retaining Talent, reach out to Kirstin at kpurcell@handshakeinheels.com!